love of the day

Hey friends, today I went to the park with my sweet doggy MATKI, she is very sweet. While walking I met this very cute doggy. He came to me, I scared to see him near me. But he was coming to me with love, I noticed that and I started rubbing his head and he rested on my lap. It was really amazing feeling. 

 

Bank Pass Book – Life is about correcting mistakes.

Hey friends.....while searching some important information I found a good story.... I thought to share with you people... 

Riya married Hitesh one day. At the end of the wedding party, Riya's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook. With Rs.1000/- deposit amount. 

Mother: 'Riya, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life. When there's something happy & memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. 

The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.' 

Riya shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea & were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made. 

This was what they did after certain time:

- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage

- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Riya

- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali

- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Riya got pregnant

- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted

.... and so on...

However, after years, they started fighting & arguing for trivial things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the nastiest people in the world.... no more love...Kind of typical nowadays, huh? 

One day Riya talked to her Mother:

'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!'

Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money & spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.' 

Riya thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue & planning to cancel the account.

While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, & looked, & looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy & happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She left & went home. 

When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce. The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Riya. She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: 'this is the day I notice how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.' 

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.

I don't know how much they saved .I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life. "When you fall, in any way, don't see the place where you fell, Instead see the place from where you slipped.

Life is about correcting mistakes." 

...the 5 love languages

the 5 language of love

Find out what your love language is here. It really helps us to understand what makes each of us tick in any type of love relationship.

This is mine:

Quality Time:

In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

I believe in.....

I believe in sleeping in. I believe in giving 100% when you only have 80. I believe in kisses on the forehead. I believe in long kisses, smiling till your cheeks hurt, and laughing until you have tears in your eyes. I believe in having someone tell you that you’re beautiful. I believe in having someone play with your hair. I believe in sitting on swings and running in the rain. I believe in miracles and random acts of kindness. I believe in saying hello to anyone and everyone. I believe in second chances.

And most of all, I believe in love.

a gal in city  with love

<3

Why This Love Is So Much Pain?

Why are all hurt so much? Why is painful love like this? What actually has happened in our relationship? Why are all to be changed? You do now not love me like you all my heart that used to be. You are now no longer in all areas of my life. And today I'm aware of. I'm not part of your family. Did either of our culture is different. Either we are not the same customs. But I feel, I cannot be considered as part of the family. I was disappointed. It was extremely disappointed. I feel sick. It's very sick.

Have you tried to continue to survive. Trying to get back into your life as it once was in times past that is mine. But now everything has changed. You no longer entirely mine. You no longer entirely mine. You're getting away from me. Do I want you more and more tired. Everything has changed. The man who once loved had now gone. Disappeared somewhere. You are no longer the person who always loved me, loved me and made me part of your life. You're really not the person that had been had.

Apparently love is so tiring lately. So painful. So make me unable to look forward. So me not knowing exactly what I want. Now you no longer care about my wishes. You no longer care how I feel. All you wanted was me to meet all you want.  I always obey what you say is that I never lose you. But the day I was getting tired. Very tired. That make all of my energy is lost slowly. Expect such a long time to reach the moon I can likewise reach but could not reach.

I'm really tired.

Happy Bday

Hey Friends!!!!!!

Its party time because................

Today is My Hiro's Bday.. as you all know who is Hiro?


I am blessing him with lots of love. may all his every wish of his life come true. And I request you all I loved it if you all wish for his good health, luck, mind and everything. 

Happy Birthday Dear....

Send your wishes as comment, 
I love you all my friends..................
Your's City Girl

My first crush my classmate

1st and 2nd love of my life....

I fallen in love with my 11th Class tuition mate…Yaaa!!! Even today I dint remember his second name but I can count him in my list because I don’t know what type of feelings I had for him and what he had for me… Usually we go to tuition before time because we enjoy each other’s company so much…most of the time we sit together in class. We solve math problems together and enjoys solving them… we don’t know what we feels for each other we always thinks that we are good friends..

Once I dint went to tuition for one week, and he started inquiring about me why I am not coming. Then he gets to know that one boy was following me regularly from a common friend. One day he came to my home for 1st time and said to my Mumma that I will take care of her; I will pick her from home and drop her also. He started picking me from my home to protect me that Roadside Romeo.

One day while crossing Road he saved me from a big accident of my life. I was crossing the road and dint saw a car was coming in huge speed and he rushed to me and pulled me toward himself and I was totally in his arms that time I felt some different feelings for him.

Unfortunately this was last day of our tuition; we don’t have any reason to meet but after 15 days he came to my home and my Mumma was with us, so he asked me very easy mathematical problems and I know him well he was the best student of our batch. I dint understand his behavior that time and explained the problem and after half an hour he left from our home and that was the when I saw him for last time.

Next morning my friend called me that he came to your home last day, I said yes then she asked “he said anything to you?”I said No, and then she said “he likes you and he came to just to say all this”. I felt bad for that but I can’t do anything for that because I dint have freedom to go and meet him so I thought to let it be.

After that day we dint met again. I don’t know where is he? I am still there in corner of his memory or he forgets me totally? Even now I dint remember his face very clearly but still when one ask me who is your 1st crush, my answer is always “Vikas”.

4th is coming soon.....

Remembering: My First Date

Our first date was in Delhi, India on 14th July 2010 it was Australian Independence Days, and I have a holiday. We were talking on phone from last two months, and we decided to meet on this day.

He came to Delhi from Chandigarh only to meet me, we went to a Restaurant in nearest Mall. We talked much but I was not comfortable with him, I met him for the 1st time and his attitude is very different from me. He was looking very serious kind of person; He showed me lots of my own photos in his mobile phone that were showing great likenesses for me.

I remember he said very casually that when we are in Mall then let’s move and at least I will purchase handkerchief and I took him directly to a stall of handkerchief and he laughed like ROFL  :D :D :D :D 

We talked a lot on that evening and now I was very comfortable with him and I love every moment that I spend with him. After spending nearly every moment with him , it became clear to me that I was happy right where I was with him.

Honestly... never in the world will I find something as special

I’m loving it….

These days I am feeling very good… my every friend knows that I am writing blog on my own feelings. This is not a reason for my happiness but the reason is my blog somewhere effecting others thoughts too.

Usually I write my feelings which every one feels in their life but never enjoyed or noticed, but now when they read my blogs they realized that they also felt the same in their life but they dint gave any importance to them. Now they started enjoyed their feelings and moment they encounter everyday and the most important thing is they share it with me and says “I also felt same like your so and so blog, if they write blog they will share this moment 1st”. It's very good feeling when your small work affects other people’s thoughts in a positive manner. 

Ahha really I am enjoying this very much. I’m loving it….

Love stories, said or unsaid

Who said love only happens once in life… I do not agree to this thought. I saw many people who had fallen in love many times.. even I have many love story of my own single one life… I can say one thing for sure that all these moment everyone have in his/her life but never notice it… but I think  we should live all the small moments of life because these become our happy memory album. Here I am going to narrate my all love stories  

My first love……

I fallen in love with my father …Yes, he was my 1st love.. As per child psychology in age of 5-6 every child fall in with their opposite sex parent So I fell in love with my Father.. hmmm I do not know how explain but yes Its true… He did all the good things for me that he can do for my better life..even I could not imagine my life without my father…
I remember all the thing when my fallen ill, that time my father helped to getting ready for school..he used to cook our breakfast when my mother helps us in getting ready for school..He was my friend when there was no one to share..He was the 1st who asked me “what you want to do in your life”. When my complained my father about my naughty habits he used to say “her naughty incident made my house home.”
When I was in 10th Standard I wake up at four am for exam preparation he always wake up before me and make Tea for me so that I will not get sleep again … He always gave me extra pocket money at the same time he knows that my mumma gave it to me…
When I started cooking he used to stand with me in kitchen so that never think that cooking is a boring task of kitchen but it’s a different thing that I still feels it’s a boring task of kitchen :-) ..whenever I do some experiment with foods he used to taste 1st and appreciate it..
Till now he used to get up before me and prepare tea for us…even he cook breakfast for us whenever last day I was in fast… I love u papa …

My love for a Star

In my teenage I have fallen in love with Bollywood Star “Sanjay Dutt”…I can say it was my 1st crush… He was so dashing in his age…He played many roles in hindi movies I used to watch his every movie and on the same time I was imagining that his co-star was only me…Start thinking of him day and night..He always came in my dreams…Yeahhh I still remember one of his movie “Saajan” and its song “Mera dil bhi kitna Pagal hai ye Pyar jo tumse karta hai…..” I always thought that this song was only for me… 

                                                                                                        

3rd story of my life.....

Felt What a Romance is Really, At Last!!!

Earlier, I used to think that I am more practical than emotional. I don't trust in Love and love stories..My mind will always says me that love is made only for movies and TV programs..and not a single emotion of love can touch me because this is not possible in real life..
You may think like that I have created a cocoon in which a single emotion of LOVE can't enter in my heart because I think that Love only hurts and this cocoon became my original thought.....

Without my knowledge I loved all those things which does not exist in real life in my point of view..I forget that this is only a cocoon which I created to protect me from LOVE feel..
One fine day, one of my friend introduced me to inner Monica, who is a romantic girl, who love salsa dance, romantic love story, romantic movies, romantic TV programs, romantic songs and loves the one who express a real love and proposals....
But earlier I thought that I am not a romantic one...I love only white and pink color..I love slow songs but later only I came to know that whatever I heard all are very romantic songs.
He simply explained these things to me and said it is only to tease me. But his joke made me understand myself more than before...

Life should have a Re-wind button!!!

From the last three days, I am just trying to write something but I felt like I am puzzled. I am totally confused about the angle, I should narrate the same so that everyone could have the interest to read it...But I could not find the way..I tried to write it thrice but failed..And now, I found the way to write in the way that I should write...

From last few days, I am trying to describe how we met each other...Lol. It sounds like "Jab We Met", a Bollywood movie name.. Actually, I was not clear on what title I should give to this bolg and but I got a perfect title now "Jab We Met"....describing how we met in blog. I feel, it’s very difficult to express but I will try picturize my level best.

First I got his contact through the outdated social networking site (Orkut), then we contacted via mobile and then started to date...After few days, he told me that he is going to describe about our fist meet.

Here are his words shared with me...

On a beautiful morning in Chidambaram, Tamilnadu, I had my tea in a canteen..I was sitting in one corner of the canteen and the sun light came in through a window and fell on my face..The sunlight got reflected from the nose ring and traveled towards a guy who was sitting on the same canteen. This incident had captured his attention towards me..He was very much attracted and felt like talking to me but couldn't found reason for that...At that time, he took the sugar and was mixing it with the tea but it was slipped on his hand.. He was trying to capture my attention though that but failed. Then he prayed to God that "She should be in my class only"..

In the classroom, he was sitting in the last bench and the entrance was near where he was sitting. So when I entered into the class, he was first who looked at me..He was very happy to see me in his class...But still he didn't came and spoke to me..He just started following me and noticing all my activities..

The days were passed with boring lectures, interesting practicals. I used to write all my assignments in the evening and it was a good experience because I found so many new friends at that time.

I was unaware of all his activities and interest..I was trying to complete my works on time and keep myself to spend some time with friends..But it was not the case with him. He was so busy in gathering information about me.

He did lots of gimmicks for getting my information. One among them is that he had stolen my ID Card from University’s Admin Office and copied my data from that.. He had compared his height with mine because to make sure that his height was same as me..Regularly starring at me wherever I go..Changed his batch from his current PCP to next PCP so that he can meet me in next PCP too..

Like that our PCP came to an end but we didn't had a word with each other.. When I get to know all these stories later, I felt like how could I missed all these things and I wished that I should go to my past and see them again.

Dedicated to my Love

Dedicated to my Love 

No matter how much he is muscular & stronger in strength... But by heart he is very weak..... He can fight with the world for me, But he cries When he sees a single tear in my eyes...

He is hard, He is rough, He is cruel, but there is a child in him who never wanted to grow... He can be awake  hundreds of sleepless nights for me, but when he gets tired, he needs my lap to sleep...
I Love my Man, Though I love him little, he will give a bouquet of love in return.... ♥ ♥ ♥

~ Dedicate to all the guys Out here, Like & share, Let them know u care ~

Love Feelings............

I feel like I'm just a small town girl, living in this lonely world. But then someone happens to step into that world. He make her smile and blush over everything. He give this little girl butterflies like no one has before. {Speechless} would describe her at this point in the day. You know when you have so much to say but you don't know where to start. You don't want to reveal too much, but don't want to say too little. You’re excited and scared at the same time. Your stomach jumps and your heart start to beat out of your chest. Everything feels so fresh and new. This could be the beginning of something great or something amazing. Few of you know what I am referring to. Even fewer know {who} I am referring to. He may not even know. Yes ladies and gentlemen, I am referring to a man. A beautiful, brave man. Oh how my heart is fluttering. I feel ridiculous but at the same time I feel as if this is the most excitement my heart has been all year. I instantly smile when I see a text from this person (he needs a nickname since I will be changing it). The content of the text doesn't seem to matter, I just feel amazing knowing that I crossed his mind, even if it was for that second to send the text. This person keeps making me blush, especially after I found out he reads my blog. My cheeks turned rose colored red. We will call him Charming or prince for short. He asked if it was worth it to risk it all for him. Obviously he read my blog post found here asking if it was worth it. My answer to his question is, yes! If you could only see my face right now you would probably laugh. I haven't been open like this in a long time. I feel as if I was closed off, but now I am free to express myself.

Lovely Silly moments….

Although I have lots of moments which give a beautiful smile on my face…but today I want to share my one of best moment of my life. Sometime when I look back in my memory album my smile come on my face without knocking the door of my heart…really heart touching…I could not stop myself. ;-)

One day my lover called me and said when he was traveling by bus he was on window seat and on another seat an uncle was there and he slept after some time. Suddenly he felt like I am on his side and unknowingly he offered his shoulder to uncle for rest. After that he realizes that I am not with him and felt bad. We both love traveling so most of the time I used to rest on his shoulder while traveling long..

 

One more incident he shared with me that while sleeping in his room he woke up at 2 PM and felt sound of my breath..I know you would say how silly is this…really friends girls are like this only. She loves your every small activity and she forgives your all big blunders in fractions of second if she feels that u really feeling bad for that..

Really these moments are very special for me because he was very jovial kind of person and he never shares his feelings to anyone…for the 1^st time he shared this kind of feeling…

I CANT FORGET THESE MOMENTS…I REALLY LOVE THOSE MOMENT OF MY LIFE WHICH I SPENT WITH U DARLING….

Stupid Love

Stupid Love

After a long time I met with my love..my darling..my everything…I was very happy to see him again..This was also reflecting on his face..He was keep on saying that he missed me a lot…He went to his native place to meet his parents and have to some work there also.. Today when I left my house to meet him I was prepared that I am going to fight with him..I show him my disappointment and wanted to tell that I don’t like his attitude towards me…He should also make time for me..In between all those responsibility he dint make available for me.....so I am very angry with him.. I don’t know What happen to me…When I saw his face he was smiling and looking at me..I was start smiling after watching him..I could not pretend that I am angry and I am not going to talk you any more as I decided..When I was stop facing his eyes I can do but when I look into his eyes I can’t..when I pretend that I am angry he keep smiling and touch-wood he was looking very cute and innocent so I could not do that anymore…. I can say that I am falling in love with him in every movement of my life I could not pretend that I am not loving him or angry with for any stupid reasons… What you say about my this experience?

lil jealousy

                                     A little jealousy is healthy in a relationship,
                           its always good to know that someone is afraid to lose you. .

I have been walking........

I have been walking........

It has been awhile, running & walking. I'm not sure whether i should stop, the unknown worries me.

Would you stand by me forever.. *listening I can be your hero baby* :)

Tell me, when to stop running away, let me rest on your shoulders. maybe someday, mhmm :)