Does Love Exist In This World?

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Hearing the news of one of the breakup of one of the popular married celebrity jodis and watching recent reality shows like Perfect Bride makes me wonder that how many people believe me in true love? I know I do for sure But then wondering what about the rest of our generation out there? Is it the attitude that 'tu nahi toh aur sahi?'. I was always inspired by films like DDLJ and Dil To Pagal Hai so I believe that there is only one person out there for us but it seems like many people today have the mentality of shopping for their life partner. What do you all think?

Is there only one person made out there for us? And how do we find that person? Is it by shopping around or do we know by instinct when we meet that person? What do you think of this mentality of tu nahi toh aur sahi? Does life and death exist in just loving one person anymore?

Looking forward to a healthy discussion and hearing your views

Birthday Means....

My Birthday really means 

Yuhhuuu !!!!! I just found out what I just found out what my birthday really means! ! and I love this...

yup its really explains exactly what I am... 

you can also check yours by clicking 

my birthday really means! 

Monica

Bank Pass Book – Life is about correcting mistakes.

Hey friends.....while searching some important information I found a good story.... I thought to share with you people... 

Riya married Hitesh one day. At the end of the wedding party, Riya's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook. With Rs.1000/- deposit amount. 

Mother: 'Riya, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life. When there's something happy & memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. 

The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.' 

Riya shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea & were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made. 

This was what they did after certain time:

- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage

- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Riya

- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali

- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Riya got pregnant

- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted

.... and so on...

However, after years, they started fighting & arguing for trivial things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the nastiest people in the world.... no more love...Kind of typical nowadays, huh? 

One day Riya talked to her Mother:

'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!'

Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money & spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.' 

Riya thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue & planning to cancel the account.

While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, & looked, & looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy & happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She left & went home. 

When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce. The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Riya. She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: 'this is the day I notice how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.' 

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.

I don't know how much they saved .I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life. "When you fall, in any way, don't see the place where you fell, Instead see the place from where you slipped.

Life is about correcting mistakes." 

sorry from your city gal....

Hello friends..........

As I mentioned in my Facebook update last month...I went to Lucknow for my Internship in Khushi Foundation for 21 days.. I was really a great experience for me..I met too many patients and clients with major and minor mental health problems... I could able diagnose on my own it was really great achievement for me. 

I also visited Nur Manzil psychiatric center, Lucknow for 8 days and Karunanilayam also, worked with child as well as adult too. So many feelings are connected from their I will really share with you all in my coming blogs... 

Regards

Happy Reading

Your City Gal

  

I believe in.....

I believe in sleeping in. I believe in giving 100% when you only have 80. I believe in kisses on the forehead. I believe in long kisses, smiling till your cheeks hurt, and laughing until you have tears in your eyes. I believe in having someone tell you that you’re beautiful. I believe in having someone play with your hair. I believe in sitting on swings and running in the rain. I believe in miracles and random acts of kindness. I believe in saying hello to anyone and everyone. I believe in second chances.

And most of all, I believe in love.

a gal in city  with love

<3

The Perfect Day...

Hey friends!! 

Really Yesterday was my perfect day. 

Yes!! Yes!! it was totally perfect. 

I went for my Hypnosis classes (I am going there on every Monday for four  hours), and she is lady who is teaching me and her name is also "MONICA", sounds interesting na?? :)

Yes!!! I know its very interesting.

Yesterday she become my friend too, and we talked too much on every topic related to Hypnosis as well as Past Life Regression Therapy too and non related topics too.

I shared my experience how I went to my past life while I listened my hypnotic mp3, Its quit interesting to know that in my last Birth I was a girl only, but not an Indian :). 

After my class I came out of her house and a friend called me that he is coming to receive me and then we went to Janpath for shopping and I purchased two shirts for me, purchasing was very interesting because I told him to do bargaining and he said he can't help me this. For one shirt I did bargaining and for another one he did it. After shopping we went for coffee at Cafe Coffee Day, CP but dint took coffee we ordered shakes. 

Like that my day ended and it was really perfect day.. :) 

Heal The World

Hey Friends!!!

While searching a good spiritual song over Google I found a song “Heal the World by Michal Jackson” I felt it’s a wonderful song that is describing the love which we should give to others. We have lots of love in us and 

We could make a better place for everyone.. I think you all should read this and feel the love for all. 

:'( heal the world make it better place for you and for me the entire human race there are people dying if you care enough for the living make a better place for you and me :'(

I think its each and every line has its own meaning and I am feeling the love and I can imagine that world which is full of love.

and the dream we were conceived in will reveal a joyful face and the world we once believed in will shine again in grace then why do we keep strangling life wound this earth crucify its soul though it's plain to see this world is heavenly be god's glow

In this full song my favorite lines are :

we could fly so high let our spirits never die in my heart I feel you are all my brothers create a world with no fear together we'll cry happy tears see the nations turn their swords into plowshares

This song has great massage for the human race… I think you all will like it.. I am sharing its youtube video’s Link here..

I am on the top of the world

Aaj mai uppar.. Asma niche..Aaj mai aage..jamana hai piche

Hey..guyssss 

I am very happy today on my favorite blog Ekk Deewana tha - in my life.. got triple century of impression................. 

I want to sing a song.. 

let me suggest any song this... 

I am getting a song .. 

“Aaj mai uppar aasma niche...aaj mai aage jamana hai piche... 

Tell me O khuda aab mai kya karun....chalun sidhi ki ulti chalunn...”

  

Thank you so much friends for liking my blog and giving your precious time here.. 

I would like if you drop your precious suggestion in my Guest Book.. 

Happy Reading & Unconditional love.. 

Monica Sharma

I, Me, and Myself

People call me reckless. They think I am a daredevil, a rebel fighting with everyone. I wish at least you didn't see me like everyone else. I just wish you saw the truth beneath my tough exterior, and realized that I am not running away from anyone; I'm just trying to be with myself. Because I believe that no one can love or understand me more than I can.

My fear of Emotional Intimacy

I pride myself on being a strong person ( to the outside world)

As much as I have been through...I have to pride myself at least on that...

But one thing makes me nervous and makes me want to run....

Emotional Intimacy

Someone seeing how I really feel

How vulnerable I am

How sensitive I am

Unsure how I am about everything, sometimes...

That makes me cold sweat

Because sometimes I don't even listen to me

But one day at a time I am trying

To listen to myself

Give myself quiet when I need quiet

Stay away when I need to stay away

Get close when I need to get close

Sometimes let the boundaries blur when I am safe

Or know I am loved ( family or friends)

And hope beyond all obstacles

Valuing myself even in brokenness



Sincerely,

Your City girl..

I’m loving it….

These days I am feeling very good… my every friend knows that I am writing blog on my own feelings. This is not a reason for my happiness but the reason is my blog somewhere effecting others thoughts too.

Usually I write my feelings which every one feels in their life but never enjoyed or noticed, but now when they read my blogs they realized that they also felt the same in their life but they dint gave any importance to them. Now they started enjoyed their feelings and moment they encounter everyday and the most important thing is they share it with me and says “I also felt same like your so and so blog, if they write blog they will share this moment 1st”. It's very good feeling when your small work affects other people’s thoughts in a positive manner. 

Ahha really I am enjoying this very much. I’m loving it….

Nature’s love

Today’s evening was an usual evening, I was coming from my office and definitely one question will rise in your mind that why this girl was saying it was a different one from that of everyday happening….

Yeah!!! Let me just describe it!!!

Today, when I left my office, I was having a feeling like “oh!! Again, I have to travel alone”. When this thing was running in my thoughts, suddenly I felt it. Yes, it was a cold breeze that flew my hair and it looked like, it was telling me that “I am here for you”. It gave me a good feel and then I have noticed the surroundings near me. I was walking over a lane which was full covered with dried leaves (due to last night’s heavy storm) and leaves were starting flying slowly due to the heavily blowing wind..


I was walking over them by watching all these things and that lane was free from traffic and people.. At that time, I could feel the smell of green leaves which were still on the tree (that lane was full of trees).. On the other hand, I could feel the beauty of dried leaves on the lane… Somewhere the wind chimes were also ringing and it added a great sound effect at that beautiful moment.

I was enjoying the nature’s love and the cold air was coming towards me like that it wants to give a big hug with lots of love.. I can feel the air all over my body and it looked like it was hugging me with love… I can feel that air which is nearby my neck and hair, like it was giving me its existence and it was telling me that “Monica, never feel alone, I am always with you”.

Simply writing..

Today I don’t have anything special to write but I still I want to write but still I want to write… ;-) because I know it’s the only way to express my feelings… Right now I am in my room….my TV is also on but listening songs on Ipod …ahaha fully wasting electricity….okiess when I am in my room then let me describe my room also..in a corner of my room I have dressing table…in one book shelf my two favorite teddy bears are also there…some photos collection..one more my bed that is totally messed up and I am messed up with mobile, ipod lead & my book…and after all this I am writing blog on my mobile… My mumma is cooking Chicken in kitchen…she asked me to help her in cooking but I said I am reading book ;-) … Please someone tell my mumma that one cant study till exams are not on head.. Here I am writing my new blog, listening songs aha my favorite one, watching TV and keep on observing surrounding and my thoughts also… OMG how much work I have to do…OMG please help me… Ahaha suddenly my hero came to my thought..He is telling sorry for not calling today because I had a lots of works to do..But I am missing you too much… aha I m blushing… I got a new topic..TELEPATHY life will be very easy if we have the power of Telepathy..we can convey our thoughts and feelings and most important any message to our loved one without wasting any time through our own mind…do you believe on these kind of power………… If I have the same then I would be always busy with my hero…no one can stop me for doing this…

I am ok now….

I am ok now….

One day I went to see one of my relative…I don’t know anything about them. I don’t know how exactly they were related to me...It was a big hospital…I can feel the smell of medicine and some other chemicals…I felt uncomfortable in that atmosphere... In one of the room, I saw a lady lying on bed with a small cute new born baby…Also, I saw a 5 year old girl standing near to her bed and continuously starring at the new born. She was very quiet and I guessed that she was a daughter of that family… Suddenly, when girl touched the new born, her father scolded her for that and the mother was indifferent towards her. The parents were scared and worried much about their new born than her…I could feel her tears behind her silence...I could see the insecurity for her, but don’t know how to handle the situation, so I could be only an eyewitness of her situation…I saw that she again tried to touch the new born and again her father scolded her… After this, she rushed out from the room and her parents didn't bother on what she was doing… I couldn’t bear to this situation and I rushed behind her, but it was too late because she met with an accident at that time and she was no more…She was very small...she doesn’t deserve that...How it could happens with her… I am ok now…Oh that was only me as the 5 year old child who died in her childhood…Now I am grown up...Now I am ok…

Sometimes.......

Sometimes you just can't tell anybody how you really feel

Sometimes you just can't tell anybody how you really feel...

- Not because you don't know why ..
- Not because you don't trust them ..
- Not because you don't know your purpose..

But because you cant find the right words to make them "UNDERSTAND" :')

Wow factor of girls life….

I am writing my new feeling of a girl’s life..I think every girl wait for the movement when suddenly her immaturity converts in maturity..I am talking about MOTHERHOOD..I thinks that you may wonder that why today I am writing about motherhood..

Motherhood

Last week I was travelling to Delhi to Kathgodam by train... I was with my mumma and she was sleeping and I was enjoying my book...Suddenly I listen the sound of small babies sneeze..The sound was very cute and after that I couldn’t concentrate on my book...I started enjoying the sound he/she was making…I saw her/his mother was talking with the baby and voice was very different it sounds like she was babbling and crooning…

After listening this babbling and crooning sound I started thinking of the motherhood...How a girl become a mother…whenever I look a mother with her 1st child I never thought that she is new in motherhood…she looks a perfect mother…how it all happens…how a she learn motherhood in one night…when a mother do babbling sound with her baby this sound fails all super hit songs…how she become more careful to baby…suddenly a mother took birth in that girl or some other miracle take place…

Oh I don’t have any answer for this…but I think Motherhood is most beautiful phase of girl life..and the relation of mother & child is very precious in this world… 

Writing a fairy tale

Every child in this world, especially a girl will be grown up with lots of fairy tales...In that age, every girl thinks herself as beautiful fairy and starts imagining that a prince will come on white horse in her life and take her with him....She used to live in her own imaginary world..She plays with her dolls and kitchen set that she has and make her home in her own world…

Eventually childhood will ends up when the age starts growing up and these kind of imaginations will also get disappear from her life…It takes little place in her heart…never come back in life even If she wish….we made a world for our self that was just perfect; free from any malice of any kind.. All the grown-ups are seeing the life more practically that we ever have...I too had imaginary world but the difference is I still thinks of it until this minute…

In that world, I am a princess and wearing a beautiful long gown and walking no just running on the street…The streets are full of flowers and plants…It gives me a fragrant smell…a very beautiful place that anyone could imagine…In that street, there are lots of people, who are just watching me and appreciating my appearance…

In that crowd of people, I am expecting a Prince everyday...I am waiting for him from many many many years…I don’t mind if he is a prince in disguise of an ugly frog...We will find a place for us up in the clouds far, far away; where I can look at the stars with better view from earth, where they will shine brighter for us and it's just only for you and me. Walking up in the clouds with you... Ah, I'm getting goose bumps just thinking about it!

Yeeaahh that’s my fairy tale….share yours if you have something like that…….