Does my blog own me?

According to this, I care only 31.25 % whether my blog is read or not! So this is done almost purely for myself and as for that itsy-bitsy 31.25 %, well a little interest never hurts!! :) So carry on people! 

31.25 %

My weblog owns 31.25 % of me.
Does your weblog own you?

...the 5 love languages

the 5 language of love

Find out what your love language is here. It really helps us to understand what makes each of us tick in any type of love relationship.

This is mine:

Quality Time:

In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

wanna fly like a butterfly

wanna fly in sky

Yes!!! I wanna fly in sky....

I am not a bird...I am not a butterfly..

still I wanna fly in sky like a beautiful butterfly...

I want to fly in sky with my beautiful wings...

Wings...Yes..Yes!!! Wings!!!

Wings of my beautiful thoughts, beauty of my life..

Beauty of my heart...beauty of my nature...

I wanna give smile to others...

I wanna give love..

I wanna love all around me...
I am ready to give and accept love..

Life is only giving and accepting love....

I believe in.....

I believe in sleeping in. I believe in giving 100% when you only have 80. I believe in kisses on the forehead. I believe in long kisses, smiling till your cheeks hurt, and laughing until you have tears in your eyes. I believe in having someone tell you that you’re beautiful. I believe in having someone play with your hair. I believe in sitting on swings and running in the rain. I believe in miracles and random acts of kindness. I believe in saying hello to anyone and everyone. I believe in second chances.

And most of all, I believe in love.

a gal in city  with love

<3

Songs that close to my heart

Songs close to my Heart

It’s not new if say I love music… because every people like to listen music, and have different taste of it. Some like rock music, some slow, and some people like sad songs.

Have you ever think why we like some particular songs?? I have the answer for this. We used to connect a song with particular situation or person and we start liking those songs.

So I have so many songs very close to my heart and today I am going to share this with you all with all reasons behind those songs. I have a big list of songs but I will share few, because I don't want you all to suffer ;) from my music list.

Followings are my list : 

1.       Ye reshmi julphen ye sharbati ankhe: I used to sing this song for my a school friend just because her eyes were very beautiful and big, she has long and silky hair.. so I always thought that this song is only made for her.

2.      Aane se uske aaye bahar :This is one of my favourite song and it came close to my heart just because my best friend Deepankar dedicated this to me and changed a word in it.... "Aane se uske aaya bahar jane se uske jaye bahar, badi mastani hai meri Monica".

3.       Chand chupa badal me :This is actually close to my heart because my Hero once commented with this song but in changed version "Chand chupa white bedsheet me".

4.      Kaise mujhe tum mil gaye : This is also close to my heart because this sung by my Hero in a restaurant and at that time he dint proposed me and suddenly sung this for infront of my friend, and I started blushing.

5.      Hosanna : I love this song because one day my Hero said that he told all his friends about me with describing this movie and its songs. So this is close to my heart. 

6.       Dekho Raste me haste haste me bat pahunchi kahan se kahan : This is a song which was not dedicated to me from anyone but I always thought that this is a most romantic song I ever heard and whenever I listen this I feel my Hero around me always.

7.      Hume tumse pyar kitna ye hum nahi jante magar jee nahi sakte tumhare bina : This song is also in my list because whenever my Hero asked me “How much you love me?” that time only this song comes on my lips to answer him.

Yes!!!!!!!!! These are my songs....tell me your too...add your comment about which songs are close to your heart and why???? I am waiting for your list.

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The Perfect Day...

Hey friends!! 

Really Yesterday was my perfect day. 

Yes!! Yes!! it was totally perfect. 

I went for my Hypnosis classes (I am going there on every Monday for four  hours), and she is lady who is teaching me and her name is also "MONICA", sounds interesting na?? :)

Yes!!! I know its very interesting.

Yesterday she become my friend too, and we talked too much on every topic related to Hypnosis as well as Past Life Regression Therapy too and non related topics too.

I shared my experience how I went to my past life while I listened my hypnotic mp3, Its quit interesting to know that in my last Birth I was a girl only, but not an Indian :). 

After my class I came out of her house and a friend called me that he is coming to receive me and then we went to Janpath for shopping and I purchased two shirts for me, purchasing was very interesting because I told him to do bargaining and he said he can't help me this. For one shirt I did bargaining and for another one he did it. After shopping we went for coffee at Cafe Coffee Day, CP but dint took coffee we ordered shakes. 

Like that my day ended and it was really perfect day.. :) 

Investing on me

Yesterday, I read a book "The lucky bitch secrets of outrageous success"  and I got inspired by it,  decided to take little step for my self. Its a very small book of 17 pages but purely with practical methods that everyone can implement it in their life with small efforts.

You can also download this book by clicking this link and get registered and you will get it in your mail. 

The author described how we can change our life with few exercise, which are as following:

1. Tell the universe your desire : Make a list that you really want and speak it loud. Ask for more money...more love...new job... and you might wonder at the random offers you're getting.
2. Regular goal setting : make it regular habit and you'll be rewarded. Doodle them while you're on phone, write them first thing and play around with different ways to express them.
3. Ideal Day: Write your absolute dream day from start to finish. Describe every minute in titillating details. Imagine as you write that you are literally creating the Universe from your pen.
4. Visualise it: Before you actually get it, pretend you do! See yourself speaking on stage wearing a glam outfit, winning that competition and most importantly feel it. Experience the pleasure of anticipatory little thrill in your belly.
5. Create your dream board : Its very easy, just paste the pictures of those things that you want in your life, it may be of healthy body, a brand new car, a laptop, a home or a musical instrument.

MY DREAM BOARD

and some really simple things you can do right now.

• Change your email and computer passwords to represent your biggest dream, eg. ihavei10. 
• Put your dream in your calendar. If you schedule it, its more real and you're energetically space for the Universe to provide it for you. 
• Edit the names in your phone, especially the people who call you the most i.e. Manish becomes Money loves me.
• Set recurring reminder on your phone that says Congrats for New home.  

I took following step in my life.

• I have changed few numbers like Kishan to Money loves me, Funtush to Good luck follows me, Arun to I am in Peace, and Arjun to I love you, Moni.
• Make my dream board and made it my desktop wallpaper.
• Changed my passwords too.

Now what you're going to change in you life?

Why This Love Is So Much Pain?

Why are all hurt so much? Why is painful love like this? What actually has happened in our relationship? Why are all to be changed? You do now not love me like you all my heart that used to be. You are now no longer in all areas of my life. And today I'm aware of. I'm not part of your family. Did either of our culture is different. Either we are not the same customs. But I feel, I cannot be considered as part of the family. I was disappointed. It was extremely disappointed. I feel sick. It's very sick.

Have you tried to continue to survive. Trying to get back into your life as it once was in times past that is mine. But now everything has changed. You no longer entirely mine. You no longer entirely mine. You're getting away from me. Do I want you more and more tired. Everything has changed. The man who once loved had now gone. Disappeared somewhere. You are no longer the person who always loved me, loved me and made me part of your life. You're really not the person that had been had.

Apparently love is so tiring lately. So painful. So make me unable to look forward. So me not knowing exactly what I want. Now you no longer care about my wishes. You no longer care how I feel. All you wanted was me to meet all you want.  I always obey what you say is that I never lose you. But the day I was getting tired. Very tired. That make all of my energy is lost slowly. Expect such a long time to reach the moon I can likewise reach but could not reach.

I'm really tired.

Happy Bday

Hey Friends!!!!!!

Its party time because................

Today is My Hiro's Bday.. as you all know who is Hiro?


I am blessing him with lots of love. may all his every wish of his life come true. And I request you all I loved it if you all wish for his good health, luck, mind and everything. 

Happy Birthday Dear....

Send your wishes as comment, 
I love you all my friends..................
Your's City Girl

Heal The World

Hey Friends!!!

While searching a good spiritual song over Google I found a song “Heal the World by Michal Jackson” I felt it’s a wonderful song that is describing the love which we should give to others. We have lots of love in us and 

We could make a better place for everyone.. I think you all should read this and feel the love for all. 

:'( heal the world make it better place for you and for me the entire human race there are people dying if you care enough for the living make a better place for you and me :'(

I think its each and every line has its own meaning and I am feeling the love and I can imagine that world which is full of love.

and the dream we were conceived in will reveal a joyful face and the world we once believed in will shine again in grace then why do we keep strangling life wound this earth crucify its soul though it's plain to see this world is heavenly be god's glow

In this full song my favorite lines are :

we could fly so high let our spirits never die in my heart I feel you are all my brothers create a world with no fear together we'll cry happy tears see the nations turn their swords into plowshares

This song has great massage for the human race… I think you all will like it.. I am sharing its youtube video’s Link here..

Money - only cash please...

It can buy a house, but not a home
It can buy a clock, but not time
It can buy you a position, but not respect
It can buy you a bed, but not sleep
It can buy you a book, but not knowledge
It can buy you medicine, but not health
It can buy you blood, but not life
So you see money isn’t everything
And it often causes pain and suffering
I tell you this because I am your friend
And as your friend I want to
Take away your pain and suffering!!
So, Send me all your money
And I will suffer for you!
Cash only please!
After all, what are friends for, right??

My first crush my classmate

1st and 2nd love of my life....

I fallen in love with my 11th Class tuition mate…Yaaa!!! Even today I dint remember his second name but I can count him in my list because I don’t know what type of feelings I had for him and what he had for me… Usually we go to tuition before time because we enjoy each other’s company so much…most of the time we sit together in class. We solve math problems together and enjoys solving them… we don’t know what we feels for each other we always thinks that we are good friends..

Once I dint went to tuition for one week, and he started inquiring about me why I am not coming. Then he gets to know that one boy was following me regularly from a common friend. One day he came to my home for 1st time and said to my Mumma that I will take care of her; I will pick her from home and drop her also. He started picking me from my home to protect me that Roadside Romeo.

One day while crossing Road he saved me from a big accident of my life. I was crossing the road and dint saw a car was coming in huge speed and he rushed to me and pulled me toward himself and I was totally in his arms that time I felt some different feelings for him.

Unfortunately this was last day of our tuition; we don’t have any reason to meet but after 15 days he came to my home and my Mumma was with us, so he asked me very easy mathematical problems and I know him well he was the best student of our batch. I dint understand his behavior that time and explained the problem and after half an hour he left from our home and that was the when I saw him for last time.

Next morning my friend called me that he came to your home last day, I said yes then she asked “he said anything to you?”I said No, and then she said “he likes you and he came to just to say all this”. I felt bad for that but I can’t do anything for that because I dint have freedom to go and meet him so I thought to let it be.

After that day we dint met again. I don’t know where is he? I am still there in corner of his memory or he forgets me totally? Even now I dint remember his face very clearly but still when one ask me who is your 1st crush, my answer is always “Vikas”.

4th is coming soon.....

Message from Universe

Hey friends..

Today I want share a very beautiful message from universe, which came through past life regression therapy of a lady and this therapy done by Stella Doshi a Past Life Regression Therapist, Courtesy from my mam’s mail. :)

A beautiful lesson through Past Life Regression Therapy,

A lady came to me, married and in love with married man. She was honest about her relationship and walked out of her marriage. Waiting for her boyfriend to take the same stand. Whatever the reason he could not move out in spite of not having any relation with his wife.

She moved into trance, saw her past life where she was married to her current boyfriend, his current wife was her mom in law. The relation between her and her mother in law was very bad. Mother in law troubled her a lot . Mother in law on her death bed was very sorry, was looking for forgiveness which Daughter in law never gave. She wanted revenge.

So in this life her past Mother in law married her past husband and she became the other woman. So that Mother in law stays in pain. To take the revenge she chose this life, of course she is causing lot of pain to her, but at the same time she herself is not at peace.

Lesson: “Revenge never makes anyone happy,”

I am on the top of the world

Aaj mai uppar.. Asma niche..Aaj mai aage..jamana hai piche

Hey..guyssss 

I am very happy today on my favorite blog Ekk Deewana tha - in my life.. got triple century of impression................. 

I want to sing a song.. 

let me suggest any song this... 

I am getting a song .. 

“Aaj mai uppar aasma niche...aaj mai aage jamana hai piche... 

Tell me O khuda aab mai kya karun....chalun sidhi ki ulti chalunn...”

  

Thank you so much friends for liking my blog and giving your precious time here.. 

I would like if you drop your precious suggestion in my Guest Book.. 

Happy Reading & Unconditional love.. 

Monica Sharma

OMG...Crying women are scientifically unsexy.

Weeping releases a chemical that reduces sexual arousal in men. The chemical releases a signal that says they are not interested in romance at the moment, which men instinctively respond to by shutting down feelings of arousal. To be specific, this refers to deeply emotional tears, not those caused by getting something in the eye, or a moderately sad movie. 

Typically, those arousal-killing chemicals are only released during full emotional weeping. Neuroscientist Noam Sobel of the Weizmann Institute of Science in Rehovot, Israel, put together an experiment to test this. Sobel collected jars of tears from women and dipped pads in them. 

They placed the pads under men's noses and showed them pictures of women. The men smelling tears rated the faces as less attractive when compared to men who did not smell tears. To support it scientifically, their testosterone levels were measured, and, not surprisingly, they dropped. 

Source: OMG Facts

New Category alert!

New Category alert! I’ve created my latest category ‘WORDPLAY’ here. I’ll mostly be bombarding you with lyrics that I love, writing which inspires me and words that for one reason or another, have the ability to make my skin tingle.

My fav. movie pics....

Yes... Today I am sharing my favorite movies pics...Because I don't know why but on internet I search any thing I only find these pics...So I thought to share it here.... 

Actually this movies story related to me but I but ending is different I wish it will change and convert in happy one...  

Remembering: My First Date

Our first date was in Delhi, India on 14th July 2010 it was Australian Independence Days, and I have a holiday. We were talking on phone from last two months, and we decided to meet on this day.

He came to Delhi from Chandigarh only to meet me, we went to a Restaurant in nearest Mall. We talked much but I was not comfortable with him, I met him for the 1st time and his attitude is very different from me. He was looking very serious kind of person; He showed me lots of my own photos in his mobile phone that were showing great likenesses for me.

I remember he said very casually that when we are in Mall then let’s move and at least I will purchase handkerchief and I took him directly to a stall of handkerchief and he laughed like ROFL  :D :D :D :D 

We talked a lot on that evening and now I was very comfortable with him and I love every moment that I spend with him. After spending nearly every moment with him , it became clear to me that I was happy right where I was with him.

Honestly... never in the world will I find something as special

I, Me, and Myself

People call me reckless. They think I am a daredevil, a rebel fighting with everyone. I wish at least you didn't see me like everyone else. I just wish you saw the truth beneath my tough exterior, and realized that I am not running away from anyone; I'm just trying to be with myself. Because I believe that no one can love or understand me more than I can.

My fear of Emotional Intimacy

I pride myself on being a strong person ( to the outside world)

As much as I have been through...I have to pride myself at least on that...

But one thing makes me nervous and makes me want to run....

Emotional Intimacy

Someone seeing how I really feel

How vulnerable I am

How sensitive I am

Unsure how I am about everything, sometimes...

That makes me cold sweat

Because sometimes I don't even listen to me

But one day at a time I am trying

To listen to myself

Give myself quiet when I need quiet

Stay away when I need to stay away

Get close when I need to get close

Sometimes let the boundaries blur when I am safe

Or know I am loved ( family or friends)

And hope beyond all obstacles

Valuing myself even in brokenness



Sincerely,

Your City girl..